Small Goals, Big Dreams .

Kavyang' s Journey Ahead

- Tell Me  - What to Do!

- you are not less funny, you are just growing up. People change with time, but your inner spark never leaves you.

H ello, I'm Kavyang Baraiya from Vadodara, studying in Std. 6. I read that you help solve problems, so I wanted to share mine.

Earlier in school, I used to have a lot of friends, and I was known as the "funny guy" in the group. But ever since my elder brother left for higher studies after 12th, I feel very bored at home. Because of this, I've stopped cracking as many jokes, and now people think I'm not as funny as before (except a few close ones who know me well). Sometimes I hardly speak 10 words in an hour!

I don't have many people to share my feelings with. If I tell my friends, they say things like, "Stop, I don't want to hear your dukh ki daastaan." Even at home, I don't get much time with my parents. I don't want them to know how I feel, but deep inside I know it's a problem.

Apart from this, I also dream of becoming a professional cricketer. But I am not able to stick to my daily practice routine. I often miss my bowling targets and feel frustrated.

I want your honest advice and personal thoughts about both these problems.

- Kavyang Baraiya

Hey Kavyang!

First, let me tell you something: writing this problem to someone itself shows you are thoughtful, brave, and mature for your age. Most kids your age would just keep quiet, but you had the courage to share. That's already a winning start?

Now let's look at your two big challenges ?

1. About Jokes,

Friends, and Missing Your Brother ??

It's natural to feel low after your brother left. Earlier, he was part of your daily life, your conversations, and even your fun. Now that he is away, your routine feels emptier. But remember-this is not a "forever change." It's just a new phase of your life.

You said people think you're not as funny as before. That's okay. Being funny is not about non-stop jokes. It's about your energy, your attitude, your ability to make people smile when they least expect it. That spark is still inside you-it just needs practice to come out again.

Ideas for you:

Keep a "funny journal."*Write one joke, funny thought, or silly sketch daily. It will help you keep your humor alive, even when you're quiet.

 Share your jokes in smaller doses. You don't need to be the "joker" all the time. Being funny sometimes is even more powerful.

 Try to spend time with new friends or even with teachers in a lighthearted way. Sometimes fresh conversations bring back your natural humor.

And remember: you are not less funny, you are just growing up. People change with time, but your inner spark never leaves you.

2. About Cricket Practice ??

Your dream of becoming a professional cricketer is exciting and powerful! But yes, every dream needs discipline. And discipline is hard-especially when you feel low or distracted.

Here's the truth: even famous players like Virat Kohli or MS Dhoni have days when they don't feel like practicing. The difference is-they push themselves to start small, and once they start, the energy flows.

Practical plan 

for you:

Small goals first: Instead of forcing yourself into long sessions, begin with 15-20 balls daily. When you succeed at that, you'll naturally want to do more.

Track progress: Keep a chart in your room. Every day you practice, tick it off. When you see 7 ticks in a row, you'll feel proud.

Mix fun with practice: Challenge yourself-"Today I'll bowl 10 yorkers," or "I'll bowl with my eyes closed for 5 balls." Adding fun makes routine less boring.

Think of the reward: Every practice session is a tiny step toward your dream. Imagine your future self playing in a stadium whenever you feel lazy.

3. About Feeling Lonely ??

You mentioned you barely talk to your parents and don't want to share your "dukh ki daastaan" with friends. That's understandable. But silence doesn't mean weakness-it can also be strength. Many creative people use their quiet time to build something great.

Here's a little secret: even when you feel lonely, you are not truly alone. You have cricket, your funny side, your diary, and your own thoughts. That's your inner team. And your brother, parents, and even friends-whether near or far-are always connected to you in some way.

So instead of seeing loneliness as a problem, treat it like a training camp: it's giving you time to build your skills, to focus on cricket, and to grow stronger inside.

Final Pep Talk ??

Kavyang, your story is just beginning. Right now, it may feel like you've lost your old "funny guy" tag, but actually, you're moving toward something bigger: becoming a balanced, disciplined, talented cricketer who also has humor in his heart. One day, when you look back, you'll realize that this quiet and boring phase gave you strength, patience, and focus.

So don't worry if people don't laugh as much at your jokes right now. The world will laugh and cheer for you when you shine on the cricket field.

Always remember

Being funny is a gift. Being disciplined is a superpower. And you have both. That makes you unstoppable.

Would you like me to make a kid-friendly quote-card style version (like one powerful line for each problem, easy to share on social media), so it feels more "meemater-like"?

 With love,

- Uncle Fix-It